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创建时间: 2015-7-13 06:57:56 显示全部楼层

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Thank you for your response. I hope you're enjoying Maggie's and my story.
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so long,so miss it
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吴雨真 发表于 2015-6-26 16:35
Hi Dennis
It was alomst two weeks since last time I read your story, thank you so much for keeping ...

I listened to "River Flows In You" and enjoyed it very much. You have very good taste in music. Thank you for telling me about this.
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吴雨真 发表于 2015-6-26 16:35
Hi Dennis
It was alomst two weeks since last time I read your story, thank you so much for keeping ...

Nice to hear from you again.

It was hard for Maggie not to tell her friends about her feelings for me. As she said, so many of them saw her get her heart broken when she and her boyfriend broke their engagement. They also thought that Maggie and I would never get together because I was seven years older than her and they didn't want to see her get her hopes up.

I also loved what Maggie said about waiting for me. We were hoping to see each other at Christmas, but it felt good to know she would wait for me no matter what.

I'm not familiar with the piano music you mentioned. I will try to find it. Maggie played the piano so beautifully. I would just love to sit and listen to her play.

Keep reading.
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吴雨真 发表于 2015-6-12 20:55
Over-analyzed words cause misunderstanding, but with enough care and patience, two people can get to ...

Hi,

Did you send me another message? The one that I recently received is the same one I answered a week ago. Did you get my answer to your comment about Maggie and I not being at the same pace?
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吴雨真 发表于 2015-6-12 20:55
Over-analyzed words cause misunderstanding, but with enough care and patience, two people can get to ...

Yes, over-analyzing words can cause misunderstandings. This is even a bigger problem when the written word is all that two people use. That was true 50 years ago in letters - and it's true today in e mail and texts. Interpreting what someone meant when they wrote the letter or sent the email or text can cause problems. However, it's very difficult to not over-analyze when you deeply care for someone.

Maggie and I were in different places in our relationship - but we were closer than I was willing to admit. Maggie did have a crush on me since she was 13 and I was 20 (her older sister told me that). When she was an older teenager and writing to me, she had little difficulty telling me how she felt. Although my feelings for her were growing, I wouldn't admit to myself that it could be love. I felt it could lead to love, but I needed to know her better (spend more physical time with her). She was giving her heart to me and I didn't want to accept it because I was afraid I might break it if I found I didn't love her.
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Thank you,

It was a nice house and it was not that far from where Maggie lived before. She was on her own, but still close enough to her grandmother and father that she could visit them whenever she wished.
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纣剑飞 发表于 2015-6-9 17:25
Very wise words:
"It's not easy to give up independence once you have discovered it."
"it is only a ...

Hi Zhou,

Thanks for your comments. It was a difficult decision for Maggie, but you are right - it was one she had to make herself.

Also, thanks for your interest in Maggie's and my story.
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创建时间: 2015-6-9 17:25:08 显示全部楼层
Very wise words:
"It's not easy to give up independence once you have discovered it."
"it is only after living alone for a length of time that you truly realize how badly you do need someone – the right one."

Happy to hear that Maggie finally made her own decision, which is necessary in one's growing up.
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创建时间: 2015-6-8 23:38:28 显示全部楼层
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